Meet the father

Here i have before me two families,both of which r abt to b one in a couple of mnths by virtue of their kids.....its the girl's family n the boy's family who have decided to get married...n i see this family happy,planning the occasion,getting excited abt the events to come,congratulating the boy n girl, n then i see this family who is solely governed by the man of the house,if he says yes then it is yes,if he says no then it is no,if he doesnt wanna b a part of the occasion then he'll do all he can in his capacity to ruin it n if he wants to b a part of it he'll make everyone happy with his decision......wat i see is the difference in point of view wen both of them see the same future,i see the ego n stubbornness taking over the kid's happiness n i see the father closing his eyes just because he doesnt want this to happen....its weird to b a son of tht father cos its not a very pleasant feeling to go thru wen all u wanted was his approval so tht he doesnt feel tht things r happening behind his back,it also feels weird to know tht their r fathers who know n appreciate the happiness their kids seek for n their egos r kept aside atleast for tht moment...n wen all of this goes on,it feels weird to meet a father,a father's understanding tht u always wanted to have...